WAITING to confront the burglar who raided her home, Rose Turnbull was expecting to see a “great big brute”.

In reality, the perpetrator who brought so much pain to the family, from Seaham, County Durham, was a mere slip of a lad and she ended up feeling a degree of sorrow for him.

The meeting was arranged by police as part of a restorative justice project and Mrs Turnbull, 57, of Deneside, had second thoughts about going along.

She said: “I had decided I was not going to go. I felt as if I could not face meeting him.

“It was only because the police turned up on my doorstep to pick me up that I went along because I did not want to waste their time.”

Mrs Turnbull spent 90 minutes with the offender in Durham Prison, where he is serving a five-year sentence.

When he struck at the family home, he made off with their car, which contained a pool cue that belonged to her son, Ian, who has Down’s syndrome.

The cue had been a birthday present and it was Ian’s pride and joy. Since the break-in, he has not played pool again.

The thief had also stolen a bag containing a keepsake that belonged to Mrs Turnbull’s mother.

The burglar, who had volunteered to take part in the scheme, apologised profusely for his actions and said he had not specifically targeted the victims.

He said they had been opportunist crimes to get money to pay for his drug habit.

Mrs Turnbull said: “I was expecting to meet a great big brute, but when I saw him, I just thought ‘poor bairn’.

“You could walk past him in the street and not look at him twice.

“At the end of the meeting, we were all drained, but glad we went through it. I think he was genuine in wanting to change.

“He used to have a good job and a mortgage, but fell in with the wrong crowd and got into drugs.”

Mrs Turnbull’s husband, Richie, opted out of the meeting, but still felt restorative justice was a worthwhile concept.

He said: “Even if it only works with one in ten, it has to be worth trying.”

The meeting was arranged by the offender’s probation officer and PCs Ian Sanders and Simon Hehir.

Chief Inspector Alison Jackson, of Durham Police, said: “Restorative justice has the potential for making a huge difference in the lives of victims and how they feel they have been treated.”