REFUGE workers launch their Christmas appeal today for mothers and children who may never have had a gift or shared a family celebration.
Six families currently seeking sanctuary at the Wear Valley Women's Aid centre, in Etherley Lane, Bishop Auckland, are hoping Advertiser readers will help make their Christmas a special day.
Workers Fiona Nichol and Louise Brown urged people to come forward with small presents and money so they can lay on a traditional turkey dinner that most families take for granted.
They are always moved by the support they receive, often from people who can afford to give very little.
Louise, the refuge's children's worker, said: "Christmas is a time of real isolation and loneliness for our families and we do our best to give them something special to remember.
"All the children will miss their fathers no matter what has gone on in their lives and they will be separated from their extended families.
"It is tragic to think that some of them don't know what it is like to receive a present or experience the pleasure of giving.
"For some of the women, a gift is something associated with violence - something that is part of the retribution that comes after an attack.
"They often come here with absolutely nothing except the clothes they are wearing at the time.
"Gifts don't have to be large to be appreciated. Everything is special because it comes with a kind thought."
Fiona said: "The problem is that the image of Christmas centres around the traditional happy family set up and that is what our mums and children don't have.
"For some of them it has been a particularly violent time. They are here because they are desperate.
"We know from previous Christmasses how generous people can be. Sometimes the less they have themselves the more they are prepared to give. It is always very moving when they come to the door."
Donations can be left at the refuge at 9 Etherley Lane, Bishop Auckland. Telephone (01388) 600094.
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