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5:29pm Tuesday 25th October 2011 in Letters
I WAS not aware that the British government is threatening to withdraw overseas aid from those countries where homosexuality is still classed as an illegal activity (HAS, Oct 22).
Privately, most people regard homosexuals as perverts.
The media, even The Northern Echo, give the false impression they are accepted as normal.
Susan Willis, Middlesbrough.
Comments(181)
Dante
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7:39pm Tue 25 Oct 11
antihypocrisy wrote:NO, that is only your opinion. Many people finf homosexuality a perversion..........
Is this an old letter been found down the back of a desk, perhaps from the late 1800's? What a fascinating insight into how ignorant some people were then.
antihypocrisy
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7:50pm Tue 25 Oct 11
Gnasher1
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7:51pm Tue 25 Oct 11
antihypocrisy
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8:00pm Tue 25 Oct 11
kebab57
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8:30pm Tue 25 Oct 11
Dante
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9:21pm Tue 25 Oct 11
antihypocrisy wrote:No, you are trying to oppose my right to disagree with homosexuality, if that is what I believe.
What is there to oppose?? You're showing your ignorance already by inferring people choose homosexuality as a lifestyle rather than the truth which is they are born to it. Do you also "oppose" coloured people?
CTRILEY
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6:17am Wed 26 Oct 11
CTRILEY
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6:28am Wed 26 Oct 11
Gnasher1
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7:05am Wed 26 Oct 11
antihypocrisy wrote:Yes, someone could mention the 1800's.
Broad generalisation and even the McCanns mentioned... can this get any more ridiculous?
Lyns79
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11:16am Wed 26 Oct 11
David Lacey
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5:24pm Wed 26 Oct 11
Gnasher1
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9:32pm Wed 26 Oct 11
Lyns79 wrote:Lyns79 wrote:
How irresponsible of The Northern Echo to allow such opinion to be posted.
Susan, 'most' people certainly do not share your opinion. I pity you living your life with such bigotry and negativity. If we were all the same the world would be a very dull place.
Stop generalising. Some homosexuals may not be normal, but not because they're gay. I've encountered plenty of hetrosexuals who could certainly never be considered 'normal' either.
Mr M
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9:18am Thu 27 Oct 11
John Justice
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9:32am Thu 27 Oct 11
antihypocrisy
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9:43am Thu 27 Oct 11
antihypocrisy
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9:47am Thu 27 Oct 11
Lyns79 wrote:Well said, there is also some truth in the idea that many so called hetro men hide their strong feeling for other men, by publicly and vehemently condemning them....hhmmm??
How irresponsible of The Northern Echo to allow such opinion to be posted.
Susan, 'most' people certainly do not share your opinion. I pity you living your life with such bigotry and negativity. If we were all the same the world would be a very dull place.
Stop generalising. Some homosexuals may not be normal, but not because they're gay. I've encountered plenty of hetrosexuals who could certainly never be considered 'normal' either.
greenfinger
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10:32am Thu 27 Oct 11
Mooochas
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12:19pm Thu 27 Oct 11
Mark - the age of enlightenment
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12:25pm Thu 27 Oct 11
antihypocrisy
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12:30pm Thu 27 Oct 11
Dean M
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1:31pm Thu 27 Oct 11
Dean M
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1:35pm Thu 27 Oct 11
Dante
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2:12pm Thu 27 Oct 11
Dean M
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2:25pm Thu 27 Oct 11
kebab57 wrote:This is a very good point. Is no democracy not as bad as homosexuality being illegal? A country that has the death penalty?
Since when did one single person become the spokesperson for the majority? Did this statement come along as a result of a survey? (only I don't recall being asked!) If you support countries that persecute people for their sexuality do you also support countries that stone women to death for committing adultery (hetrosexuality!)... ....
Mark - the age of enlightenment
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4:24pm Thu 27 Oct 11
CTRILEY
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5:08pm Thu 27 Oct 11
Dean M wrote:Dean M you're right the fact which many don't know is that the brains of heterosexual men are hard wired to be sexually aroused by lesbians.
CTRILEY wrote: "How many of those who thinks gays are perverts get sexually aroused by watching gay women having sexual intercourse?" . Come on CTR, you know that's completely different and totally acceptable.
babz
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5:31pm Thu 27 Oct 11
Kate Buell
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6:06pm Thu 27 Oct 11
Mark - the age of enlightenment wrote:What a stupid reply!
Dante - I'm slightly puzzled I'm afraid. I only asked for advice since your knowledge of the biblical story of Sodem and Gomorrah is so extensive. Just as a minor point of interest the story actually talks about the residents sins in general including torture and murder not specifically homosexuality. Still look on the bright side - at least these homosexuals aren't stealing our jobs AND our women.
funksoul201181
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6:27pm Thu 27 Oct 11
MBC2011
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6:42pm Thu 27 Oct 11
twin39r
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7:03pm Thu 27 Oct 11
Gnasher1
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7:59pm Thu 27 Oct 11
your joking
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9:20pm Thu 27 Oct 11
spragger
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9:51pm Thu 27 Oct 11
funksoul201181
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12:58am Fri 28 Oct 11
CTRILEY
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6:50am Fri 28 Oct 11
funksoul201181 wrote:How many of those qouting the Bible are aware that Old Testament relates to the Jews, whilst the New Testament relates to Christians. How it is the history, traditions and myths of a Middle Eastern tribe who other than the out of Africa migration are totally unrelated to everyone else on this planet. Which is why the story of Genesis, Noah and the Tower of Babel aren't found within the beliefs of other cultures.
wonder how many people here qouting bible etc actually go to church, have read the bible and live how jesus expects. id say none of you you qoute small parts of the bible then say to others dnt force things down others throaghts,maybe they dnt wanna live to the bibles standards. what happened to forgiveness etc. jesus ssaid the most important commandment was to love one another as you would love yourself.
delboy1977
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7:35am Fri 28 Oct 11
Dante
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9:25am Fri 28 Oct 11
antihypocrisy
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9:49am Fri 28 Oct 11
Gnasher1
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9:59am Fri 28 Oct 11
antihypocrisy wrote:WRONG antihypocrisy, the original letter didn't speak for most people, as is clear with the amount of comments, most people can speak for themselves.
WRONG Dante, the issue is the original letter claiming to speak for most people which is blatantly an outrageous generalisation.
miketually
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10:46am Fri 28 Oct 11
antihypocrisy
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10:47am Fri 28 Oct 11
nufc64
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11:33am Fri 28 Oct 11
Dean M
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12:14pm Fri 28 Oct 11
nufc64 wrote:Stop making excuses for all those 'men' using any excuse to hug and kiss each other in the stands at sportstjamesdirect.p
Here's something to make you think. All people are attracted to the same sex, otherwise how would we be able to form relationships with people of the same sex. It's the degree to which those feelings manifest themselves to make you feel more attracted to the same sex or both. Therefore in my opinion everyone is GAY to some extent so stop the bigoted hypocrisy
Dean M
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12:18pm Fri 28 Oct 11
Gnasher1 wrote:I think you're wrong, Gnasher.
antihypocrisy wrote: WRONG Dante, the issue is the original letter claiming to speak for most people which is blatantly an outrageous generalisation.WRONG antihypocrisy, the original letter didn't speak for most people, as is clear with the amount of comments, most people can speak for themselves.
antihypocrisy
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12:36pm Fri 28 Oct 11
trickie43
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12:38pm Fri 28 Oct 11
antihypocrisy
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12:40pm Fri 28 Oct 11
antihypocrisy
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12:40pm Fri 28 Oct 11
antihypocrisy
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12:40pm Fri 28 Oct 11
antihypocrisy
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1:37pm Fri 28 Oct 11
Dante
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1:39pm Fri 28 Oct 11
antihypocrisy
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2:04pm Fri 28 Oct 11
hogworth
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2:37pm Fri 28 Oct 11
Ragnar
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2:47pm Fri 28 Oct 11
hogworth wrote:Well that's like saying God created Hitler, Pol Pot, criminals and murderers and paedophiles isn't it.
I understand God is supposed to have created everything and mankind, does this not include gays?
Sir Donald Stokes
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3:15pm Fri 28 Oct 11
CTRILEY
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5:31pm Fri 28 Oct 11
tomtopper
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7:52pm Fri 28 Oct 11
MBC2011
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8:10pm Fri 28 Oct 11
tomtopper wrote:Tom - what on earth does your grandfather fighting in world war one have to do with this? Are you really attempting to justify your Victorian moral codes by holding up the patriot card? Would it be better that everyone enslave themselves to the accepted ideals of your grandfather because he helped fight a war? And how about the grandfathers of gay men? Believe me, the 'majority', as you are proving, is by no means silent - but only all too keen to admonish those with non-heteronormative views. Finally: 'seed' a woman? Are you for real? I'm glad I'm not your wife!
I think the jury is still out as to whether people are born that way...If it is genetic then all twins of gay people will themselves be gay as they share the same genetic code...?? Could someone brought up in an overly effeminate enviroment during the primary years subconsciously imbalance thier hormonal release during early puberty...Thereby affecting orientation?? I don't know the answers to that, and I don't reckon anyone does...
What my beef is, as with the majority of people.. Is the fact that we and especially our children are being socially engineered younger and younger to accept homosexuality as an absolute equal and that it is completel natural for a man to put an organ genetically designed to penetrate and seed a woman into somewhere that is designed to get rid of waste products... a lot of people do revile at the thought of this.. I believe that gay people should'nt be attacked nor mocked and thier preference is thiers alone but it should not be thrust upon children and vulnerable people in an almost sinister fashion by some quarters which the SILENT majority often read as perverted.. Its the establishments obsession with sex that people are getting sick of.
The scorn heaped on those who question it sticks in my throat. So my forefathers, who went over the top at the somme and who spent thier lives down a filthy coalmine are ignorant bigots are they...?
John Justice
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11:23pm Fri 28 Oct 11
Dean M
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11:39pm Fri 28 Oct 11
MBC2011
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12:27am Sat 29 Oct 11
Nick Scott wrote:Well Nick, you'd be very wrong in thinking I'm militant in any way; but if you or any of the other brain dead bigots on here thinks that gay people will just sit down and keep quiet when opinionated fools like yourself and the misguided crow who sent this letter take a pop at gay people, then you'd be very wrong on that count too. Shall I tell you why a small proportion of gay people 'flaunt' their sexuality in public? Now listen up, as this may well be a groundbreaking revelation: they do it to prove a point to intolerant people like you. So why don't you and your fellow insecure friends put a lid on it, stop writing intolerant letters to the Northern Echo, and thus stop provoking retaliatory demonstrations from the gay community?
MBC2011, I think you must be one of the militant gays that are getting up everone's nose. You may or may not have a choice about how you feel, people may or may not care. What the vast majority of people aren't comfortable with and don't want is people parading their sexuality in public, and particularly introducing the idea of homosexuality as normal in schools.
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Just keep it to yourself and I'm sure everyone can get on just fine.
antihypocrisy
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8:56am Sat 29 Oct 11
John Justice
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9:05am Sat 29 Oct 11
miketually
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9:39am Sat 29 Oct 11
miketually
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9:40am Sat 29 Oct 11
Bob Bob
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12:01pm Sat 29 Oct 11
miketually
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2:57pm Sat 29 Oct 11
miketually
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3:51pm Sat 29 Oct 11
Dean M
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5:24pm Sat 29 Oct 11
antihypocrisy
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6:39pm Sat 29 Oct 11
spragger
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8:28pm Sat 29 Oct 11
MBC2011 wrote:'they do it to prove a point to intolerant people like you'
Nick Scott wrote:Well Nick, you'd be very wrong in thinking I'm militant in any way; but if you or any of the other brain dead bigots on here thinks that gay people will just sit down and keep quiet when opinionated fools like yourself and the misguided crow who sent this letter take a pop at gay people, then you'd be very wrong on that count too. Shall I tell you why a small proportion of gay people 'flaunt' their sexuality in public? Now listen up, as this may well be a groundbreaking revelation: they do it to prove a point to intolerant people like you. So why don't you and your fellow insecure friends put a lid on it, stop writing intolerant letters to the Northern Echo, and thus stop provoking retaliatory demonstrations from the gay community?
MBC2011, I think you must be one of the militant gays that are getting up everone's nose. You may or may not have a choice about how you feel, people may or may not care. What the vast majority of people aren't comfortable with and don't want is people parading their sexuality in public, and particularly introducing the idea of homosexuality as normal in schools.
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Just keep it to yourself and I'm sure everyone can get on just fine.
tomtopper
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12:12am Sun 30 Oct 11
MBC2011 wrote:You miss my point... You call people bigots, victorian etc for not sharing your 'let it all hang out' progressive view on things... As most people whom lost thier lives in the first and second world wars and the previous hard working generations shared these same 'keep it to yourself' views as put forward by most commentors on here.. You're saying that those people are intolerant bigots too..are you not??? Or are you so above everyone on here that you know if they came back they would agree with you..??
tomtopper wrote:Tom - what on earth does your grandfather fighting in world war one have to do with this? Are you really attempting to justify your Victorian moral codes by holding up the patriot card? Would it be better that everyone enslave themselves to the accepted ideals of your grandfather because he helped fight a war? And how about the grandfathers of gay men? Believe me, the 'majority', as you are proving, is by no means silent - but only all too keen to admonish those with non-heteronormative views. Finally: 'seed' a woman? Are you for real? I'm glad I'm not your wife!
I think the jury is still out as to whether people are born that way...If it is genetic then all twins of gay people will themselves be gay as they share the same genetic code...?? Could someone brought up in an overly effeminate enviroment during the primary years subconsciously imbalance thier hormonal release during early puberty...Thereby affecting orientation?? I don't know the answers to that, and I don't reckon anyone does...
What my beef is, as with the majority of people.. Is the fact that we and especially our children are being socially engineered younger and younger to accept homosexuality as an absolute equal and that it is completel natural for a man to put an organ genetically designed to penetrate and seed a woman into somewhere that is designed to get rid of waste products... a lot of people do revile at the thought of this.. I believe that gay people should'nt be attacked nor mocked and thier preference is thiers alone but it should not be thrust upon children and vulnerable people in an almost sinister fashion by some quarters which the SILENT majority often read as perverted.. Its the establishments obsession with sex that people are getting sick of.
The scorn heaped on those who question it sticks in my throat. So my forefathers, who went over the top at the somme and who spent thier lives down a filthy coalmine are ignorant bigots are they...?
And would you bigots please be so kind as to stop terming sexuality a 'preference' - I for one have never felt a choice in the matter.
theBretwalda
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6:20am Sun 30 Oct 11
Gnasher1 wrote:Don't mention Godwin, don't mention Godwin, don't mention Godwin…
antihypocrisy wrote: Broad generalisation and even the McCanns mentioned... can this get any more ridiculous?Yes, someone could mention the 1800's.
CTRILEY
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9:06am Sun 30 Oct 11
CTRILEY
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9:27am Sun 30 Oct 11
spragger
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6:47pm Sun 30 Oct 11
spragger
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7:47pm Sun 30 Oct 11
spragger
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7:47pm Sun 30 Oct 11
CliveA
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7:52pm Sun 30 Oct 11
John Justice
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10:43pm Sun 30 Oct 11
CTRILEY
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6:24am Mon 31 Oct 11
John Justice
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6:56am Mon 31 Oct 11
CliveA
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9:58am Mon 31 Oct 11
CliveA
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9:59am Mon 31 Oct 11
melwilson
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1:40pm Mon 31 Oct 11
antihypocrisy
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2:06pm Mon 31 Oct 11
melwilson wrote:Dont get stressed of the idiots like SW and the usual bigots on here Mel, they will never and, if they're really honest, aren't ABLE to see common sense, decency and real humanity. They enjoy their hateful opinions, it gives them something to live for.
What a massive pile of SH1T!!!!
I initially thought that Susan Willis was just taking the micky to get a rise but then I see comments from our regular homophobic to55ers & realised that actually, we really do live in a sad little world.
I'm PROUD that my kids know about homosexuality & that they know it isn't wrong - it's about time this b0ll0cks was knocked on the head.
Fuming .....
antihypocrisy
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2:07pm Mon 31 Oct 11
miketually
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2:55pm Mon 31 Oct 11
JohnSmith2
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3:28pm Mon 31 Oct 11
CTRILEY
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6:00pm Mon 31 Oct 11
spragger
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7:46pm Mon 31 Oct 11
CliveA
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8:12pm Mon 31 Oct 11
John Justice
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8:45pm Mon 31 Oct 11
John Justice
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8:45pm Mon 31 Oct 11
CTRILEY
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9:06pm Mon 31 Oct 11
spragger wrote:For the first six weeks after conception the foetus will undergo cellular division to acquire cellular mass. At around the sixth week DNA will kick in to create either a male or female. However the DNA has to determine not just the sex of the body but also of the brain, this is done by the mother releasing various levels of hormones. If the process works correctly then the result is heterosexual make or female, however external chemical influences can affect the hormone levels.
'The nature/nurture debate is utterly irrelevant here, as are proclamations of 'the right to disapprove' nature / nuture is key as we are having the nature angle rammed down our throats, without any absolute evidence. Pro nature try to gloss over this and hope if they continue to rant/ shout/ accuse it will become a fact. Show your absolute proof, or join the debate . .
Top of the hill
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11:24pm Mon 31 Oct 11
sablepoot1967
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11:27pm Mon 31 Oct 11
sablepoot1967
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11:33pm Mon 31 Oct 11
JohnSmith2 wrote:Well said John.
I like the way the 'tolerant christians' say homosexuality is a choice, and that groups should not promote this lifestyle and shove it down everyone else's throats, yet they CHOOSE to follow their religion, form into groups and dedicate their time not only to ramming their views down our throats if the opportunity arises but also knocking on our doors and trying to scare us into joining their groups.
You say the homosexuals should keep their choices behind closed doors... maybe you religious folk should do the same.
sablepoot1967
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11:33pm Mon 31 Oct 11
JohnSmith2 wrote:Well said John.
I like the way the 'tolerant christians' say homosexuality is a choice, and that groups should not promote this lifestyle and shove it down everyone else's throats, yet they CHOOSE to follow their religion, form into groups and dedicate their time not only to ramming their views down our throats if the opportunity arises but also knocking on our doors and trying to scare us into joining their groups.
You say the homosexuals should keep their choices behind closed doors... maybe you religious folk should do the same.
sablepoot1967
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11:44pm Mon 31 Oct 11
EliasW wrote:Ha ha Elias, you so belong to the dark ages!!!!
Homosexualy is a crime, Full stop. I worked in London for 15 years, once a week we went for an evening out to Chelsea, it was an eye opener. For what its worth these people do not look happy, comfortable, relaxed and were living on their nerves. It needs to be said that many homosexuals are very depressed and suicidal. Many flit in and out of relationships and when people say 'someones promiscuous' they often mean 'like homosexuals'. If the medical profession was to speak out they would endorse these views. Why are they homosexuals? mostly because they got wrongly influenced at an early age to take part in mutual masturbation meetings and sordid sexual experiences with others. It all stemmed from there. Its not genetic, but it does alter the mental genetic code. The worst must be the Transvestites, men who pretend to be women, I have met a lot of sad cases and this is what we are talking about, sad, dirty, grubby men hanging around toilets and seeking rent boys. Its illegal.
EliasW
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5:34am Tue 1 Nov 11
CTRILEY
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6:16am Tue 1 Nov 11
johnny_p
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6:34am Tue 1 Nov 11
GOOD_GRIEF
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10:06am Tue 1 Nov 11
Paul6588
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10:10am Tue 1 Nov 11
EliasW
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11:48am Tue 1 Nov 11
johnny_p wrote:Johnny,
Elias-
You seem to have spent a lot of time hanging around in areas frequented by gay people, and yet still have very strong outspoken beliefs about the matter.
"The lady doth protest too much, methinks"......
Hamlet Act 3, scene 2, 222–230
Stockton_boy
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12:24pm Tue 1 Nov 11
its only me again
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1:34pm Tue 1 Nov 11
Dean M
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2:06pm Tue 1 Nov 11
CTRILEY wrote:Don't say that CTR, not on this thread!
EliasW, you're an arsehole.
its only me again
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2:25pm Tue 1 Nov 11
Dean M wrote:;)
CTRILEY wrote:Don't say that CTR, not on this thread!
EliasW, you're an arsehole.
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Imagine the excitement you've caused..
MBC2011
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4:01pm Tue 1 Nov 11
tomtopper wrote:Mr Topper, I did not miss your point; I understood it perfectly. The problem with it was that it wasn't so much a 'point' as a vague, cheap stab in the direction of heritage and patriotism. The gentlemen -- our forefathers -- that you speak of, shared views that were prevalent getting on for a century ago now. Can you tell me, if you share those same views, and the fact that they fought a war (which has nothing to do with this issue) is justification for their views, whether you also live your life the same way they did in other respects, too? Do you listen to a Bakelite radio rather than a TV? Do you renounce modern advancements in medicine, the internet, supermarkets, washing machines and dishwashers? I imagine not. If you are so keen to embrace advancements in science, politics and the modern market place, why do you think it acceptable to hold up the anachronistic views of the last century as still relevant and acceptable in 2011? If your forefathers were around now, I'm sure they'd be ashamed of your inability to keep up with the times, like so many others amongst the intelligent people on this forum who are reading your bizarre comments.
MBC2011 wrote:You miss my point... You call people bigots, victorian etc for not sharing your 'let it all hang out' progressive view on things... As most people whom lost thier lives in the first and second world wars and the previous hard working generations shared these same 'keep it to yourself' views as put forward by most commentors on here.. You're saying that those people are intolerant bigots too..are you not??? Or are you so above everyone on here that you know if they came back they would agree with you..??
tomtopper wrote:Tom - what on earth does your grandfather fighting in world war one have to do with this? Are you really attempting to justify your Victorian moral codes by holding up the patriot card? Would it be better that everyone enslave themselves to the accepted ideals of your grandfather because he helped fight a war? And how about the grandfathers of gay men? Believe me, the 'majority', as you are proving, is by no means silent - but only all too keen to admonish those with non-heteronormative views. Finally: 'seed' a woman? Are you for real? I'm glad I'm not your wife!
I think the jury is still out as to whether people are born that way...If it is genetic then all twins of gay people will themselves be gay as they share the same genetic code...?? Could someone brought up in an overly effeminate enviroment during the primary years subconsciously imbalance thier hormonal release during early puberty...Thereby affecting orientation?? I don't know the answers to that, and I don't reckon anyone does...
What my beef is, as with the majority of people.. Is the fact that we and especially our children are being socially engineered younger and younger to accept homosexuality as an absolute equal and that it is completel natural for a man to put an organ genetically designed to penetrate and seed a woman into somewhere that is designed to get rid of waste products... a lot of people do revile at the thought of this.. I believe that gay people should'nt be attacked nor mocked and thier preference is thiers alone but it should not be thrust upon children and vulnerable people in an almost sinister fashion by some quarters which the SILENT majority often read as perverted.. Its the establishments obsession with sex that people are getting sick of.
The scorn heaped on those who question it sticks in my throat. So my forefathers, who went over the top at the somme and who spent thier lives down a filthy coalmine are ignorant bigots are they...?
And would you bigots please be so kind as to stop terming sexuality a 'preference' - I for one have never felt a choice in the matter.
The problem with progressives is where is it all going to end..??
There's something very wrong in this rampant sexualisation of everything and everyone...
So to take your train of thought in a future setting say, thirty years down the line, It might well be prudish to disagree with the sexual age of consent, both straight and gay being when the youngster reaches puberty..??
That's progressives for you....
MBC2011
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4:02pm Tue 1 Nov 11
tomtopper wrote:Mr Topper, I did not miss your point; I understood it perfectly. The problem with it was that it wasn't so much a 'point' as a vague, cheap stab in the direction of heritage and patriotism. The gentlemen -- our forefathers -- that you speak of, shared views that were prevalent getting on for a century ago now. Can you tell me, if you share those same views, and the fact that they fought a war (which has nothing to do with this issue) is justification for their views, whether you also live your life the same way they did in other respects, too? Do you listen to a Bakelite radio rather than a TV? Do you renounce modern advancements in medicine, the internet, supermarkets, washing machines and dishwashers? I imagine not. If you are so keen to embrace advancements in science, politics and the modern market place, why do you think it acceptable to hold up the anachronistic views of the last century as still relevant and acceptable in 2011? If your forefathers were around now, I'm sure they'd be ashamed of your inability to keep up with the times, like so many others amongst the intelligent people on this forum who are reading your bizarre comments.
MBC2011 wrote:You miss my point... You call people bigots, victorian etc for not sharing your 'let it all hang out' progressive view on things... As most people whom lost thier lives in the first and second world wars and the previous hard working generations shared these same 'keep it to yourself' views as put forward by most commentors on here.. You're saying that those people are intolerant bigots too..are you not??? Or are you so above everyone on here that you know if they came back they would agree with you..??
tomtopper wrote:Tom - what on earth does your grandfather fighting in world war one have to do with this? Are you really attempting to justify your Victorian moral codes by holding up the patriot card? Would it be better that everyone enslave themselves to the accepted ideals of your grandfather because he helped fight a war? And how about the grandfathers of gay men? Believe me, the 'majority', as you are proving, is by no means silent - but only all too keen to admonish those with non-heteronormative views. Finally: 'seed' a woman? Are you for real? I'm glad I'm not your wife!
I think the jury is still out as to whether people are born that way...If it is genetic then all twins of gay people will themselves be gay as they share the same genetic code...?? Could someone brought up in an overly effeminate enviroment during the primary years subconsciously imbalance thier hormonal release during early puberty...Thereby affecting orientation?? I don't know the answers to that, and I don't reckon anyone does...
What my beef is, as with the majority of people.. Is the fact that we and especially our children are being socially engineered younger and younger to accept homosexuality as an absolute equal and that it is completel natural for a man to put an organ genetically designed to penetrate and seed a woman into somewhere that is designed to get rid of waste products... a lot of people do revile at the thought of this.. I believe that gay people should'nt be attacked nor mocked and thier preference is thiers alone but it should not be thrust upon children and vulnerable people in an almost sinister fashion by some quarters which the SILENT majority often read as perverted.. Its the establishments obsession with sex that people are getting sick of.
The scorn heaped on those who question it sticks in my throat. So my forefathers, who went over the top at the somme and who spent thier lives down a filthy coalmine are ignorant bigots are they...?
And would you bigots please be so kind as to stop terming sexuality a 'preference' - I for one have never felt a choice in the matter.
The problem with progressives is where is it all going to end..??
There's something very wrong in this rampant sexualisation of everything and everyone...
So to take your train of thought in a future setting say, thirty years down the line, It might well be prudish to disagree with the sexual age of consent, both straight and gay being when the youngster reaches puberty..??
That's progressives for you....
Top of the hill
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4:25pm Tue 1 Nov 11
Stockton_boy wrote:Firstly, I should point out that this post was started with inclusive bigoted, homophobic, unfounded comments, "Privately, most people regard homosexuals as perverts.
Whatever happened to the time when someone was gay, he quietly lead his life. The world now demands legislated respect and preferential treatment. For the avoidance of doubt Gay is not normal otherwise as a race we would extinct.
Stockton_boy
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4:27pm Tue 1 Nov 11
Top of the hill
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4:33pm Tue 1 Nov 11
its only me again wrote:Ginger tolerant? Are you joking??? ;o)
This is a lengthy post isn't it. Allow me to pose another question:
What about being gay AND having ginger hair !!!!!!!
Top of the hill
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4:42pm Tue 1 Nov 11
delboy1977 wrote:Whether you agree with it or not is irrelevant. I am more concerned with what will happen if one of your kids does turn out to be gay. In fact that applies to many on here. What are you going to do if one of your kids or grandkids does turn out to be gay? Will you ostracise them just being who they are?
I don't agree with people being gay, but what people do behind there own door is up to them, the only time it would be a problem for me is if one of my own children admitted to being gay ! i would not be able to condone this !! i recently worked in Nigeria and if you are caught with another man you are taken into the street and beaten and flogged !!
johnny_p
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4:43pm Tue 1 Nov 11
EliasW wrote:I can't Elias. I've worked a lot in London, but have never really noticed "them". I guess though if you look hard enough you'll find "them".
johnny_p wrote:Johnny,
Elias-
You seem to have spent a lot of time hanging around in areas frequented by gay people, and yet still have very strong outspoken beliefs about the matter.
"The lady doth protest too much, methinks"......
Hamlet Act 3, scene 2, 222–230
Can you name one part of London that's not plagued by those of that ilk?
We didn't hang sround those areas, we 6 men working at London Airport liked Chelsea because at night that's where the good looking women were. Surely men getting married to each other is beyond belief. I've never seen a man in a white wedding dress and wearing a veil, it must be hell-of-a-sight, are'nt the photos a bit funny looking if the brides got a 2 day stubble.
Top of the hill
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4:45pm Tue 1 Nov 11
Stockton_boy wrote:Sorry Stockton_boy, that just doesn't make any sense at all.
Call it Hompohobia, call it what you like at the end of that day, if **** between two consenting adults of the opposite sex is for perverts, then surely homosexuality is one of the worst kinds of perversion.
Top of the hill
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4:45pm Tue 1 Nov 11
Stockton_boy wrote:Sorry Stockton_boy, that just doesn't make any sense at all.
Call it Hompohobia, call it what you like at the end of that day, if **** between two consenting adults of the opposite sex is for perverts, then surely homosexuality is one of the worst kinds of perversion.
Top of the hill
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4:53pm Tue 1 Nov 11
johnny_p
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4:55pm Tue 1 Nov 11
Top of the hill wrote:Yeah- gave me a headache just trying to read it. What do you mean "Stockton_Boy" (can I judge you by your name)?
Stockton_boy wrote:Sorry Stockton_boy, that just doesn't make any sense at all.
Call it Hompohobia, call it what you like at the end of that day, if **** between two consenting adults of the opposite sex is for perverts, then surely homosexuality is one of the worst kinds of perversion.
Paul6588
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4:57pm Tue 1 Nov 11
delboy1977 wrote:"I don't agree with people being gay" is as idiotic a thing to say as "I don't agree with people being female" or "I don't agree with people being English" That's the way someone is born and you just have to accept it.
I don't agree with people being gay, but what people do behind there own door is up to them, the only time it would be a problem for me is if one of my own children admitted to being gay ! i would not be able to condone this !! i recently worked in Nigeria and if you are caught with another man you are taken into the street and beaten and flogged !!
Dean M
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5:02pm Tue 1 Nov 11
Top of the hill
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5:18pm Tue 1 Nov 11
Dean M wrote:Subtle difference, but to say "I think most people" rather than "most people" would be an opinion rather than an expression of fact. As I say, subtle difference, but a very important one - in my opinion! ;o)
But is it 'verbal gay bashing'? If someone expresses their opinion that 'privately, most people regard homosexuals as perverts' that's just an opinion to which they are entitled, surely? It's also an opinion that I suspect most people don't agree with.
Top of the hill
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5:20pm Tue 1 Nov 11
Dean M wrote:I see what you were referring to now. I was actually not specifically commenting on the letter, rather the subsequent posts with regard to verbal gay bashing - dirty old men in macs - picking up rent boys - all gays being transvestites, etc...
But is it 'verbal gay bashing'? If someone expresses their opinion that 'privately, most people regard homosexuals as perverts' that's just an opinion to which they are entitled, surely? It's also an opinion that I suspect most people don't agree with.
Dean M
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5:47pm Tue 1 Nov 11
spragger
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6:30pm Tue 1 Nov 11
sablepoot1967 wrote:and your evidence amounts to a rant?
I dont think being homosexual is a life choice, its the something you're born with. Who would decide to live a life of homosexuality with so many stupid minded people, and stupid bloody bible bashers that make their life hell!
Why do so many people believe in what the bibe says?......Its a book of fairy tales, you daft people! Burn it and start living in the real world!
Gnasher1
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6:42pm Tue 1 Nov 11
Top of the hill
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8:34pm Tue 1 Nov 11
Gnasher1 wrote:But would you want to live in Russia?
Dmitri Antonov had the best idea to resolve this unnatural perversion.
phambling`
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8:42pm Tue 1 Nov 11
Becca.
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8:46pm Tue 1 Nov 11
Becca.
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8:46pm Tue 1 Nov 11
CTRILEY
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9:01pm Tue 1 Nov 11
Gnasher1
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9:17pm Tue 1 Nov 11
Becca. wrote:Are you smacked up?
I think some people are so ignorant. If 2 people (ANY 2 people) love each other and want to be together then why should small minded people stop them? For the record if my son or daughter grow up and make the decision that they are gay then I will be happy as long as they are happy and the person they choose to be with treats them well.
JohnSmith2
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9:30am Wed 2 Nov 11
Gnasher1 wrote:Did he try to "rape the gay out of them" like they do in some of the countries we don't want to give aid to?
Dmitri Antonov had the best idea to resolve this unnatural perversion.
Top of the hill
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11:25am Wed 2 Nov 11
Gnasher1 wrote:Very intelligent response there Gnasher1. Just in case you don't notice it, that was me being sarcastic. I think you misunderstood the old saying that goes, "Just think of something stupid to say, then don't say it."
Becca. wrote:Are you smacked up?
I think some people are so ignorant. If 2 people (ANY 2 people) love each other and want to be together then why should small minded people stop them? For the record if my son or daughter grow up and make the decision that they are gay then I will be happy as long as they are happy and the person they choose to be with treats them well.
Top of the hill
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11:27am Wed 2 Nov 11
Becca. wrote:Well said Becca. Just remember that for most it is not a decision though.
I think some people are so ignorant. If 2 people (ANY 2 people) love each other and want to be together then why should small minded people stop them? For the record if my son or daughter grow up and make the decision that they are gay then I will be happy as long as they are happy and the person they choose to be with treats them well.
Becca.
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4:56pm Wed 2 Nov 11
Top of the hill wrote:Fair point, I suppose for many the right word would be realisation rather than decision. I stand by everything else I said though, and for the record I'm not "smacked up" but thanks for asking Gnasher1!
Becca. wrote:Well said Becca. Just remember that for most it is not a decision though.
I think some people are so ignorant. If 2 people (ANY 2 people) love each other and want to be together then why should small minded people stop them? For the record if my son or daughter grow up and make the decision that they are gay then I will be happy as long as they are happy and the person they choose to be with treats them well.
Gnasher1
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4:56pm Wed 2 Nov 11
Top of the hill wrote:Are you smacked up? ;)
Gnasher1 wrote:Very intelligent response there Gnasher1. Just in case you don't notice it, that was me being sarcastic. I think you misunderstood the old saying that goes, "Just think of something stupid to say, then don't say it."
Becca. wrote:Are you smacked up?
I think some people are so ignorant. If 2 people (ANY 2 people) love each other and want to be together then why should small minded people stop them? For the record if my son or daughter grow up and make the decision that they are gay then I will be happy as long as they are happy and the person they choose to be with treats them well.
stiv
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6:27pm Wed 2 Nov 11
21jax21
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Dean M
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9:32pm Wed 2 Nov 11
Sammie xx
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10:34pm Wed 2 Nov 11
Dante wrote:I have been bi-sexual for a couple of years and looking at this is so sad and untrue. Yes people have their views thoughts and such but by rejecting someone for this - what has this world come to can people not have different sexuality's without been judged, without been threatened and much more day in day out. I think that because of my sexuality I should not be classed as a 'pervert' for what I believe in and who I am day in day out. Many things are legal now i.e adopting as same sex couples and marriage so why should people be threatened to have aid withdrawn from overseas. In the media recently it has come apparent that army soldiers are now aloud in if they are homosexual. Someone tell me that they understand because we are now in the twentieth century not the olden times.
antihypocrisy wrote:NO, that is only your opinion. Many people finf homosexuality a perversion..........
Is this an old letter been found down the back of a desk, perhaps from the late 1800's? What a fascinating insight into how ignorant some people were then.
........like football, it's a matter of opinion, but unlike football, where you can still shout your dislike for an opposing team, people cannot say they oppose homosexuality.
As one old man said on Radio Cleveland many years ago,......"when I was a lad it was ilegal....now it's leagal and we have to embrace it, I only hope I'm dead before it's made compulsary"
As far as I'm concerned, "I'm not, they are, but don't try and make me accept them. I will not hurt them, but don't try to make me say what the do is ok, and if you will forgive the pun, which is not intended,...stop trying to push it down our throats......I will not push my sexuality on you, so please don't push yours on me. If you are not ashamed of what you do, then don't try to justify it all the time.
Remember what Shakspear said......"methinks the lady protesteh too much" and that is what I think, if homosexuals felt at ease witn their lifestyle, they would not need to justify it with the rest of the population, not now as it's legal.
CTRILEY
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12:02am Thu 3 Nov 11
funksoul201181
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12:25am Thu 3 Nov 11
stiv wrote:in jesus day children were married off young
The way this country is turning its back on the Holy Bibles morals, Its Homos and lesbians now, it will be Paedophile's next.
tomtopper
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12:52am Thu 3 Nov 11
CTRILEY wrote:I'm getting a bit sick of your 'wickipedia' cutting and pasting and plagarism of websites in an attempt to portray yourself as the hub of all knowledge..
Female roles within plays were once played by boys. Due the height of a teenage boy in relation to length of an adult women’s dress during the Elizabethan period, the dress would drag on the floor. This originated the term “drag” as applied to cross-dresser.
During the mid 18th to early 19th century the idea image of an ideal man within English society was someone who wore wigs, make up, lace trimmed shirts and acted in an effeminate manner.
When pantomimes began lead male parts were played by women (i.e. Peter Pan) and female roles were played by men (such as the ugly sisters). During the Victorian people bearded ladies were in fact cross dressers.
During the 20th Century famous entertainers included a number of cross dressers such Arthur Lucan (Old Mother Riley), Bugs Bunny, Hinge and Bracket, Daniel Patrick Carroll (Danny La Rue), etc.
EliasW writes” We had never seen men wearing make up, pearls, necklaces and artificial nails.” We did, we also had a lot of ignorant and bigoted people.
tomtopper
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2:26am Thu 3 Nov 11
CTRILEY wrote:I'm getting a bit sick of your 'wickipedia' cutting and pasting and plagarism of websites in an attempt to portray yourself as the hub of all knowledge..
Female roles within plays were once played by boys. Due the height of a teenage boy in relation to length of an adult women’s dress during the Elizabethan period, the dress would drag on the floor. This originated the term “drag” as applied to cross-dresser.
During the mid 18th to early 19th century the idea image of an ideal man within English society was someone who wore wigs, make up, lace trimmed shirts and acted in an effeminate manner.
When pantomimes began lead male parts were played by women (i.e. Peter Pan) and female roles were played by men (such as the ugly sisters). During the Victorian people bearded ladies were in fact cross dressers.
During the 20th Century famous entertainers included a number of cross dressers such Arthur Lucan (Old Mother Riley), Bugs Bunny, Hinge and Bracket, Daniel Patrick Carroll (Danny La Rue), etc.
EliasW writes” We had never seen men wearing make up, pearls, necklaces and artificial nails.” We did, we also had a lot of ignorant and bigoted people.
CTRILEY
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6:16am Thu 3 Nov 11
CTRILEY
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7:04am Thu 3 Nov 11
Gnasher1
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7:43am Thu 3 Nov 11
Dean M wrote:Quality!!
Trouble is though, the pushing of gay rights by the authorities goes too far.
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A friend of mine, who owns a confectionery company, was threatened with prosecution for a homophobic job advertisement.
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How are you supposed to describe a fudge packer?
Gnasher1
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7:48am Thu 3 Nov 11
21jax21 wrote:If your father had been a homo you would not be here to defend your perversion!!
Jesus was the ultimate gay man. He wore a dress and sandals and hung out exclusively with dudes (disciples). He never left home but could cater to the masses with one loaf and one fish. Only a gay man could pull that off! And please, before someone rides me about dresses and sandals on men being the norm way back then, well so was the bible the norm way back then. There are markings on cave walls that could teach me how to spear a dinosaur but I dont have to now since I can call my gay caterer to do the cooking for me. Thank god for those that actually evolve and dont sit in their jesus robes and sandals pontificating to those they disagree with over silly shyte. No one should flaunt their sexuality. But if you are str8 ask yourself, if you hold hands walking down the street with your beloved, are you flaunting your sexuality in the same regard as two men or two women holding hands? What then is the difference.
21jax21
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10:49am Thu 3 Nov 11
Gnasher1 wrote:Gnasher, my dad is a gay man. Unfortunately due to the hatred and bogotry back in the day he wasn't able to fully be himself and really fall in love with someone more suitable for him. Bless his heart, he had made a str8 marriage work for 53 years although he has never been a happy man. I wonder if years ago all the haters would still be hated if they knew how many people were condemned to live unhappy lives. Oh well, we can always look up to Kim Kardashian as she holds up your sanctity of marriage.
21jax21 wrote:If your father had been a homo you would not be here to defend your perversion!!
Jesus was the ultimate gay man. He wore a dress and sandals and hung out exclusively with dudes (disciples). He never left home but could cater to the masses with one loaf and one fish. Only a gay man could pull that off! And please, before someone rides me about dresses and sandals on men being the norm way back then, well so was the bible the norm way back then. There are markings on cave walls that could teach me how to spear a dinosaur but I dont have to now since I can call my gay caterer to do the cooking for me. Thank god for those that actually evolve and dont sit in their jesus robes and sandals pontificating to those they disagree with over silly shyte. No one should flaunt their sexuality. But if you are str8 ask yourself, if you hold hands walking down the street with your beloved, are you flaunting your sexuality in the same regard as two men or two women holding hands? What then is the difference.
JohnSmith2
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11:32am Thu 3 Nov 11
stiv wrote:Another ignorant comment from a bible lover.
The way this country is turning its back on the Holy Bibles morals, Its Homos and lesbians now, it will be Paedophile's next.
21jax21
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11:42am Thu 3 Nov 11
JohnSmith2 wrote:I agree John, it is more acceptable for a priest to stick his *penis into little boys than it is for two adults to share their lives together in peace and harmony. After all the priest represents the very best of the bible. Suffer the children.
stiv wrote:Another ignorant comment from a bible lover.
The way this country is turning its back on the Holy Bibles morals, Its Homos and lesbians now, it will be Paedophile's next.
You just compared consensual love between two adults to raping children.
I won't even bother to cite instances of religious organisations covering up child abuse as I'm sure you will simply ignore them.
NotanotherNortherer
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1:22pm Thu 3 Nov 11
21jax21
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4:23pm Thu 3 Nov 11
Nick Scott wrote:Instead he realized his error and gave us his son who was gay. If God didn't intend to make gay people why did he end up making so many? Millions and millions of people are gay in this world and it's not because some meteor showered the earth!
Indeed, but if God had intended people to be gay he would have given us Adam and Steve.
CTRILEY
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5:08pm Thu 3 Nov 11
Nick Scott wrote:According to the Talmud Adam's first wife was called Lilith which according to some accounts was a lesbian.
Indeed, but if God had intended people to be gay he would have given us Adam and Steve.
Gnasher1
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6:45pm Thu 3 Nov 11
21jax21
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6:57pm Thu 3 Nov 11
Gnasher1 wrote:oh so you like the idea of priests and their pedophilic phalluses,,,figures. i think you should visit the mountain people in west virginia,,, you'd fit right in with that ideal,,,cept with them it's just daddies and grandpas doing it to their girlfolk.
21jax21 says
"I agree John, it is more acceptable for a priest to stick his *penis into little boys than it is for two adults to share their lives together in peace and harmony. After all the priest represents the very best of the bible. Suffer the children."
What an imbecile you are!
CTRILEY
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7:05pm Thu 3 Nov 11
CTRILEY
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7:20pm Thu 3 Nov 11
CTRILEY
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11:11pm Thu 3 Nov 11
spragger
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11:19pm Thu 3 Nov 11
spragger
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11:19pm Thu 3 Nov 11
funksoul201181
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11:57pm Thu 3 Nov 11
EliasW
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9:47am Fri 4 Nov 11
EliasW
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9:56am Fri 4 Nov 11
stiv
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12:54pm Fri 4 Nov 11
Ia2861
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2:54pm Fri 4 Nov 11
stiv
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6:25pm Fri 4 Nov 11
stiv
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6:27pm Fri 4 Nov 11
21jax21
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6:34pm Fri 4 Nov 11
Ia2861 wrote:lmao!! omg, people actually still believe this kind of thing??? anyways,,thanks for the afternoon laughs.
Fair enough then homosexuals are not perverts. But on the same basis then neither are paedophiles.
CTRILEY
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10:14pm Fri 4 Nov 11
CTRILEY
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10:18pm Fri 4 Nov 11
JohnSmith2
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10:21pm Fri 4 Nov 11
stiv wrote:which god?
Say what you like, God will forgive you.......... but some maybe more than others!
CTRILEY
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10:44pm Fri 4 Nov 11
johnny_p
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6:57am Sat 5 Nov 11
CTRILEY
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8:19am Sat 5 Nov 11
Ia2861 wrote:I was told yesterday that a friend of a friend of my mother has a daughter who is a lesbian. She became so after she was raped by a white hetrosexual man. She recovered pyhsically but she can't bare to be in the same room as a man, so the only contact she can bare is with other woman.
Fair enough then homosexuals are not perverts. But on the same basis then neither are paedophiles.
Tom_K
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6:55pm Sun 6 Nov 11
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